Our Friend – RIP

We had to put our best friend, travel companion, protector and gentle soul, Heddy,  down today.  She was 14.  Increasingly immobile,  unable to do stairs and even to stand up on our slippery floors.  At night,  when her legs twitched involuntarily as she dreamed,  we KNEW she was chasing her nemeses – mailmen and rabbits.  Where she is now,  they are less safe but she is happier.

Heddy Our Friend
Heddy 2002-2015 RIP
Even though the house feels VERY empty, our new lifestyle does not allow for rescuing another.   As if to help with the transition,  it will be months if not longer before the large balls of Heddy-hair stop floating out from under the sofa…as though she were still here.    

No doubt,  she is now spending her days barking at Liz’s father (and receiving cookies in return).

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18 responses to “Our Friend – RIP”

  1. Ron and Mary Lewis Avatar
    Ron and Mary Lewis

    So sorry about Heddy – our condolences.

  2. Ellen Avatar
    Ellen

    Sorry to hear this Uncle Dan and Aunt Liz, now Heddy and Bailey can be happily playing and barking together!

  3. Dan Ray Avatar
    Dan Ray

    Very sorry to hear about Heddy. I know she was a bit part of your family. Annie (our yellow lab) is almost 12. I know we will have to deal with her health in the next couple of years.

  4. Stephanie Bialek Avatar
    Stephanie Bialek

    We are so sorry to hear about Heddy and are thinking of you both! The thought about her barking for cookies from dad made me smile, though. I’m am certain she has reunited with her cookie supplier 🙂

  5. Kristen Avatar
    Kristen

    My eyes well up with tears as I read this. I was just petting her last night! She is in a happy place now. You shared many wonderful years together, it didn’t make sense to see her suffer. Still a tough decision, I know.
    May she rest in peace.

  6. Jane Avatar
    Jane

    I agree with Ellen, I know that Bailey must have been missing his dog cousin and is probably very happy to see her! I imagine that they are romping around together happily and pain-free. But while Bailey keeps her company, we will all miss her very much! She was the best dog!

  7. Kim Hong Avatar
    Kim Hong

    Heddy will be greatly missed. She “trained” me how to not be afraid of dogs by being her gentle and friendly self. Thank you Dan and Liz for sharing Heddy with us.

  8. Janet Avatar
    Janet

    Sorry to hear about Heddy. I know how much you loved her and how much you will miss her. Tough decision, but most likely the right one.

  9. Keith Avatar
    Keith

    My condolences to you, Dan and Liz, for your loss. As noted last week, Heddy, not only got in all of her at-bats, she also played well into extra innings.

  10. Donna Avatar
    Donna

    So sorry to hear about your loss, Dan and Liz. I know that the decision to put down a pet is a very hard one and I sympathize with you in that processing. I will miss Heddy and her welcoming affection. May she enjoy her journeying in her new home. Blessings to you both as you grieve.

  11. Mark Avatar
    Mark

    Dan and Liz
    So very sorry to hear about Heddy. Hope she is in a happier, pain free place…well stocked w aging mailmen. Tracy and I are thinking about you and sending good wishes.
    Mark

  12. Bob and Barb Avatar
    Bob and Barb

    Hard decision, but the right one. We’re sure she’ll be waiting for you at the Rainbow Bridge.

  13. Anne Avatar
    Anne

    Liz and Dan,
    So sorry to hear about Heddy. An empty space but many fond memories to fill it.
    Annie and Sal

  14. Stefania and JC Avatar
    Stefania and JC

    Irreplaceable. What a faithful pal. Heddie is now liberated from a limiting body. And you two are now positioned for a different life. Our heart is with you as you make this big transition without Heddie
    Hugs from the Adirondacks
    Stefania snd JC

  15. Julie H Avatar
    Julie H

    Oh, I’m so sorry to hear Heddy has gone from this place. She was a beautiful dog and wonderful companion. Condolences, Julie

  16. Mom Avatar
    Mom

    Liz and Dan:
    Even tho I sent you an e-mail yesterday I feel just as awful today! I am happy for Heddy – she is probably having a wonderful time keeping Doggie Heaven safe from mailmen, delivery people and anybody else who dares to disturb her nap! She’s using her free time looking for the “Cookie Man.”
    Hope you two are coping.

    XOX Mom

  17. Sandy Avatar
    Sandy

    Just learned the news about your beloved Heddy. I am SO sorry for your loss…always looked forward to the greeting I received every time I climbed the stairs to your home. She will be missed. Thinking of you both!

  18. Janita and Pete Avatar
    Janita and Pete

    Dan and Liz, We are so sorry about the loss of dear Heddy. She was a loyal companion and protector, and just such a good girl. We enjoyed taking care of her and are sad that both she and Bailey are gone. Our favorite memory is of when Heddy and Bailey would chase, leap on and bite each other in an exuberant “Welcome to Twin Lakes” dance. Heddy, like Mooch before her, will be greatly missed.

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